Wellness Check: Sleep 1

It pains me that most of us are running around on not enough sleep.  Sure, we’ve all had to pull the occasional all-nighter for school or work, and we’ve all also had times when we were having so much fun that sleep seemed irrelevant.  Many of us have dealt with the sleep deprivation that comes with a new baby, or even, sometimes a new puppy.  All that stuff is part of life.

The sleep deficits I’m talking about are the ones we develop as a result of the increasing cultural pressure to do more, faster, and all the time.  Our work creeps into our “off” time.  Our off time is full of activities for ourselves and our kids.  Then there’s the housework and the yardwork and the volunteering in our communities and oh, yeah, we’re supposed to keep up on current events and the world needs saving and what the heck am I making for dinner?  Sleep starts to seem like a luxury.  That is not ok.

 

First of all, let me remind everyone, again, that they are beloved children of God, or valuable humans, or essential to the world, however you best hear it, just by existing.  You are enough, without doing anything.  I start from the premise that everyone deserves to be healthy and happy.  Sleep is part of that.

 

While we sleep, our brains and bodies take out the trash.  Memories consolidate.  Muscles repair themselves.  We can’t possibly be really healthy without enough sleep.

 

Still not convinced?  Fine.  We are less productive when we are overtired.  (I hate that we hyperfocus on production, but if that’s the lever I need to push to get folks to rest, I’ll do it!)  Tired people have accidents, make mistakes, and take longer to complete tasks.  Plus they tend to be crabby.

 

Maybe we started the year with some good intentions around getting enough sleep and as time went on, we got distracted.  Now is a great time to get back on track.  Tomorrow I’ll talk about what that might look like and how we might get there.

Wellness Check: 5

More ways to encourage recovery and regeneration!

 

1.     Corrective and low-intensity movement:  Think yoga, Pilates, stretching.

2.     Breathing:  deep breathing stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system, cuing our bodies to rest and recover.

3.     Massage, foam rolling, percussion:  feels good and is good!

4.     Epsom salt baths.

5.     Fun.

Wellness Check: Recovery and Regeneration 2

I hope that yesterday I convinced everyone that recovery and regeneration are important.  As we check in here in the middle of the year, we might notice that rest has not been as plentiful as we would have liked, or that we are more sore than would be ideal, or that we find ourselves catching every bug that goes around.  Those are all good signs that moving recovery up the priority list might be an idea to consider.

The top three techniques for recovery are things we pretty much have to do anyway.  The key is to do them to the right extent and to the right standard.

 

Number one is our sleep.  I’ll be focusing in on this particular modality all week next week, but let’s start with one idea:  get seven hours.  (We can argue about why that’s not possible in the future, but for now, just try it.)

 

The second top technique for recovery is nutrition.  I’ll spend the week after next unpacking this one in more detail, too, because there’s lots to think about, but for now, I just need to remind everyone (even me) that running on sugar and caffeine is not a sustainable practice.  Eat a vegetable every once in a while, at least!

 

The third top technique is hydration.  All liquids count toward our total hydration, but our best choice, most of the time, is water.  Aim for half your body weight in ounces per day (e.g., if you weigh 3,000 pounds, you want to drink 1,500 ounces of water; I chose a ridiculous quantity because some of us fixate way too much on scale numbers.)  (If you do, in fact, weight 3,000 pounds, please do not be offended.  I am impressed that your walrus self has learned to read!)  If that sounds like too much math, try to drink enough that you need to use the bathroom every hour or so.

 

Good news, right?  We have to sleep and eat and drink just to keep existing.  We’re already doing an adequate job because here we are, still breathing!  And just a few little tweaks can make us feel even better.

 

Need help?  I’m a wellness coach, you know.  I can help you set achievable goals in every area of wellness.

Wellness Check: Recovery and Regeneration 1

Once we get back into our movement and/or exercise routines, we discover (or rediscover) that recovery and regeneration are important.  There is a current in gym culture that I deeply object to and it is the “no pain, no gain” and related stuff.  Yes, we sometimes have to get uncomfortable to make progress, but if we are in pain, something is actually wrong.

Further, without recovery, we don’t make gains.  Our muscles get stronger not while we are working, but when we are done, when we rest and the microdamage we have caused repairs itself, only better.

 

Recovery and regeneration are not intuitive in our wider culture either.  We hear a lot about hustling and we glamorize being so busy that we don’t have time to sleep or eat.  Excuse me, but no.

 

Tired and sore people are usually not happy people.  (I say usually because there are certainly times, like after a really intense workout, where we are happy because we’ve done more than we ever thought we could, or broke a personal record, or are bathing in endorphins.)  When we chronically deprive ourselves of recovery and regeneration, we are depriving ourselves, not only of our best performance, but of our best existence.  (This is the part where I insist that you are valuable and wonderful and need to be in the world even if you don’t do anything.  You are not your performance, no matter what your boss or your family or ads tell you.)

 

So:  How is recovery going for you?  (Tomorrow I’m going to talk about things you might do to recover, in case you need ideas to reboot.)

Wellness Check: 4

Sometimes we need a little nudge to get moving.  Here are some possible “rules” to help us out:

 

1.     Microwave time is stretching time.

2.     The pause between episodes is lap-around-the-house time.  (Bonus points:  change the laundry!)

3.     Take the stairs instead of the elevator or escalator.

4.     On the phone?  Talk and walk.

Wellness Check: Movement 2

If we’re already nailing the part where we move our bodies on the regular, it might be time to consider whether we’re getting enough exercise.  All bodies need exercise; what that exercise consists of varies from body to body.  What follows are some general principles that need to be applied with love and common sense.

There are three categories of exercise that most people need:  cardio, strength training, and balance/flexibility work.  The guideline for cardio is that we need to get our heart rate up for about 150 minutes per week, which works out to 30 minutes a day for five days.  There is some math we can do to figure out what constitutes “up” (220 minus your age gives you your maximum heart rate.  Your cardio range is from 65-85% of that number.), but I personally like the talk test better:  if you can talk with some pauses for breath, you’re working hard enough; if you can sing, you’re not doing the job; if you can’t carry on a conversation, you’re doing too much.  How you get your heart rate up is up to you.  The possibilities are legion:  walk, run, swim, bike, play soccer, chase the kids, do stairs, dance…  Bottom line:  five days, 30 minutes, briskly.

 

For strength training, we want to do one to three strength workouts per week.  What we do depends on our goals.  Talking to a trainer (hey, that’s me!) can help clarify what might be a good idea.  No matter what the goals are, we want to use weights heavy enough that it’s hard for us to complete the final rep in a set.  The number on the dumbbell should go up as we keep working, not every time, but every couple months at least.

 

Balance and flexibility are skills.  I know a lot of us think of them as talents, but both things improve with practice.  There are a couple of ways to go about that practice.  There are always yoga and Pilates classes or individual sessions (yep, me again!).  However, we can use those otherwise wasted minutes throughout our day to build in some practice time.  We can stand on one foot while we brush our teeth.  We can stretch while we wait for the microwave.  We can do some single leg squats in line at the grocery store (bonus points for amusing our fellow shoppers).

 

If all that still seems complicated, talk to me.  I’d be happy to help sort it out.

Wellness Check: Movement 1

It may not be the official start of summer, but June is here.  The beginning of a new season is a good time to check in with where we are with our wellness.  How are those goals we might have made back in January?  Or, more basically, how are we feeling?  Over the month, I’ll be gently reminding us all about the different pillars of our wellness.  This week, we’re talking about movement.

So here we go.

 

Today is one of those times when I might seem overly concerned with distinctions.  Sorry/not sorry.  Exercise and movement, while related, are not the same thing.  I am absolutely in favor of both of them (I mean, that’s my job), but when we’re talking wellness, we are not necessarily talking about exercise.

 

Movement is anything we do that is more energetic than pushing buttons on the remote while we sit on the couch.  It includes things like weeding the garden, trudging up and down the stairs to put away laundry, walking a dog who clocks negative miles per hour and sniffs every plant along the sidewalk, and the like.

 

Exercise is a little more focused.  We have a purpose when we exercise, whether that is getting stronger, working our hearts and lungs, improving balance, or beating that other team at pickleball.

 

Like I said, both are good for us.  Even those of us who do exercise regularly need to think a little about movement.  I’m pretty sure everyone has heard the phrase that sitting is the new smoking.  I wouldn’t go that far, but it’s increasingly clear in the research that putting in a half hour at the gym and then sitting the rest of the day is not our best path.  Humans need to wiggle.

 

So:  are we all getting our wiggle on?

Fresh: Take Out the Trash

An inherent part of freshening our mindsets is taking out the trash.  I mean, how many times have we come home from the store with a bunch of new produce and found that we have to get the sad wilted lettuce and the other expired stuff out of the way before we can even put what we bought in the fridge?

When we spring clean our homes, or clear out our closets, we go through and figure out what needs to go.  What is worn out?  What doesn’t fit?  What hobbies have we grown out of?  What’s broken?

 

Sometimes we learn, as we make space, that what we really needed wasn’t a bunch of new stuff, but rather the space itself.

 

In a fitness context, this can mean anything from letting go of ideas about ourselves (“I’m too ___ to do that thing I want to do.”  “It takes too long.”  “People will look at me funny if I…”) to rethinking what dinner looks like (hint:  if it is mostly nutritious and tastes good, it can be whatever you want).  Maybe we’ve gotten tangled in a complex system of workouts and we just need to make it simple for a while.  Maybe, dare I say, we can put away our gizmos and trackers and just move for a bit to see how that feels.

 

My trash might be your treasure.  There are so many useful paths to take.  The key is that we use our big brains to evaluate what is actually serving us as we live our healthy, happy lives.

 

Go play.

Fresh: Mindset

In March, we’re ready for spring.  I’m going to focus on fresh (freshness, refreshment, all the variations) because that’s the essence of spring to me.

This week, it’s all about the mindset.  We all have mind-habits the same way we have other habits.  Our thoughts as well as our actions fall into ruts.  What I am suggesting here is that we try a new thought-road or two this month and see where we end up.

 

For example, I had a conversation recently with someone about things we wished we had learned about earlier in our lives.  For me, it was growth mindset, or the idea that how we work at things is more important than how innately talented we are.  Growth mindset is still a pretty fresh path for my little brain.  It is in the process of transforming the way I think about failures and about experiments.  I feel like there are a lot more options in the world than there used to be.  Obviously, this applies to fitness, but it’s one of those places where fitness is only one of many useful contexts for an idea.

 

Finding new mindsets means having new experiences.  We learn new stuff because we’ve talked to someone or read something or gone somewhere or seen something.

 

Where might we like to explore?  I’d love to hear ideas!

Thursday List: 9

We all have times when things… do not go well.  While falling into the ice cream is a coping technique, it might not be the healthiest one.  Here are some other choices:

 

1.     Meditating

2.     Connecting with others

3.     Reaching out for support

4.     Journaling

5.     Reading

6.     Resting/napping

7.     Music

8.     Exercise

9.     Time outside in nature

 

I have my own personal list.  What’s on yours?

Mental & Emotional Wellbeing, Part 2

Emotional well-being comes from lots of places and practices.  We face a variety of challenges in our present lives and there are useful techniques we can use to deal, either as preparation or as recovery.

If, for example, we struggle with stress (who doesn’t?), we can prepare for stressful situations with a technique called conscious breath control.  This is exactly what it sounds like.  We pay attention to our breath and we choose to slow it down to stimulate our parasympathetic nervous system.  If we’ve been stressed, we can choose any of a variety of meditation techniques to chill ourselves back out.

 

When our emotions are all over the place, or if we think they’re going to be, we have other options.  To prepare, we can use positive affirmations.  Recovery from emotional chaos is helped by mindfulness, simply acknowledging our present state and letting it be what it is without glomming on to it.

 

When we face difficult decisions, we can prepare by brainstorming.  In the aftermath, we can recover by allowing ourselves to daydream about other possible outcomes we might want.

 

What works best for you?

Mental & Emotional Wellness, Part 1

The final wellness piece is mental and emotional health.  (This is where I put in the disclaimer:  I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, or therapist.  I can give general advice about mental and emotional well-being, but please seek professional help from those other folks as needed.  I’m here for support, not for diagnosis or treatment.)

Today I’m going to talk a bit about supporting cognitive function.  Tomorrow I’ll touch on some of the emotional stuff.

 

We tend to assume that cognitive decline is inevitable as we age.  Not so fast, y’all.  We have a bunch of tools we can use to keep our brains working.

 

A couple of the tools are kind of un-tools:  quitting smoking and preventing head injury.  If you smoke, I’m sure you already know it is not the best choice for health.  Maybe this one more reason will make the difference?  (Quitting smoking is hard.  No judgment if you haven’t got there yet.)  The head injury part may not be something we can control, but we can reduce our risk by doing smart stuff like wearing helmets when biking or skiing or the like and by working on our balance to avoid falls.

 

The positive tools all kind of work together.  We want to get regular exercise (Hey!  That works well with the balance work we want to do anyway to keep from falling!).  We want to get enough good sleep (a virtuous cycle with our exercise, which promotes good sleep, and good sleep helping us exercise again!).  We want to keep our brains active.  This can mean anything from doing puzzles to reading to learning a new sport (look!  There’s that exercise thing again!).  We also want to support our mental health.  There are, again, lots of ways to do that.  We can journal or hang with friends or take a walk with those same friends (dead horse beating:  exercise with friends!).

 

Essentially, when we live an engaged, healthy life, our brains thrive along with our bodies.

Thursday List: 5

Need a few more tips for sleeping?  I got you:

 

1.     Move every day.

2.     Don’t over-nap.

3.     Meditate or reduce worry some other way.

4.     Stick to a schedule.

5.     Avoid late night meals and snacks.

Sleep, part 2

I’ll start with a confession.  I have really struggled to put together an evening routine.  Morning routine:  no problem.  Evening rolls around and I’m like, “Routine?  Is that even a thing?”  But, knowing the benefits, I keep working on it and I’m making a bit of progress.

(The benefits are:  I feel more prepared for the next day, I fall asleep faster, and I sleep better.  Also, my teeth are brushed.)

 

What kind of stuff goes into a bedtime routine?  Surprisingly, best results come from starting up to 8 hours before bed.  (OK, so it’s not like we just stop doing stuff at 2; we just tick off a couple things then.)  Around eight hours before bed, we might want to stop with the caffeine.  While it is probably better for us not to have nicotine ever, if we are users, we want to try to stop using around the same time.

 

Around an hour before bed, we want to turn off the tv, shut down the screens, and stop working.  This supports our melatonin production by limiting our exposure to blue light and also helps us turn down the stress.

 

If possible, a half hour before bed we can dim the lights further.  When we are in an environment that is about candlelight-bright, we stimulate dim-light melatonin onset, which in turn helps us to have an uninterrupted night of sleep.  Then we can take a hot shower to relax our bodies further.

 

When we turn in, we will sleep best in a cool, dark, quiet room.  This may require interventions like a sleep mask, ear plugs, a noise machine, or the like.  Preparation helps.

Sleep, Part 1

We can’t be well without sleep.  There’s a reason sleep deprivation is a torture.  Some of us might want to have words with the current culture about this, because there is a lot of pressure out there to do All The Things even at the expense of sleep.

While there are certainly times when we’re not going to get enough (like, say, when we have a new baby), we can strive to get our seven to nine hours.  I realize this may mean terrible sacrifices, like waiting a whole day to watch the next episode of that awesome show or putting away the phone at bed time, but when we wake up with actual energy, we might find it worth it.

 

When we get enough sleep, our bodies and our brains work better.  Sleep time is when our tissues repair themselves from our workouts so we wake up stronger.  It’s also the time when we consolidate the things we learn during the day.  Our brains do housework while we’re unconscious (isn’t that nice of them?) and we don’t really want to get in the way of them taking out the garbage.

 

Tomorrow:  bed time routines!

Nutrition, part 2

Food is one of the joys of life, in my opinion.  It’s also necessary!  Choosing foods that are both good for us and fun to eat helps us live a happy life.

So how do we do that?

 

In general, we want to choose foods that are close to how they occur in nature.  Eating an apple is going to be better for us than eating an apple pie.  And sour apple candy isn’t even food and may not have any actual relationship with apples.  This principle means that whole grains are better for us than processed grains, that fresh veggies are on the whole better than canned, that fresh fruit is better than jam, etc.

 

However, we also want to consider that food is more than just fuel for our bodies.  Food is part of our culture and our social interactions.  When we’re considering apple pie, we may need to remember that our grandpa baked it with love and we get to hear him tell stories while we eat it.  That feeds us, too.  If we get so hung up on eating the “right” things, we may skip going out with friends and that’s not good for us either.

 

Most of the time, we want to choose real food, minimally processed, and cooked in ways that are good for us.  Sometimes, not so much.

 

Or, as my personal guru, Cookie Monster, says:  “Healthy food makes me a healthy dude” and “Cookies are a sometimes food.”  

Nutrition, Part 1

A third pillar of wellness is nutrition.  We can’t be well without proper fuel.  Today I’m going to go over macronutrients and tomorrow I’m going to talk about actual food.

There are three macronutrients:  protein, carbohydrates, and fats.  When we eat food, we’re ingesting some combination of these three.

 

Protein is crucial for building and rebuilding our bodies.  If we don’t get enough protein in our diets, we have trouble healing from injury.  Those of us who would like to change our body compositions toward more lean tissue also need protein in order to do that.  Vegetarians and vegans need to be careful to ensure that they are getting good sources of protein because most non-animal proteins don’t have all the essential amino acids we need to get from our diets, but it’s not that complicated.

 

Carbohydrates get a bad rap these days and a lot of them don’t deserve it.  Unless we have celiac disease or a gluten sensitivity, there is no reason to avoid our friends the whole grains.  Carbohydrates are a good source of energy for us.  Also:  veggies!  We love veggies!  Quality matters in carbs, though.  There’s a big difference between getting carbs from vegetables and whole grains and from a box of donuts.  When in doubt, choose the carbs with more fiber.

 

Fat is also essential for our bodies to function.  It is a dense source of calories, which is important when we are doing lots of exercise.  Quality matters here, too.  In general, the best fats for us are the ones that are liquid at room temperature.  Those are the unsaturated fats.  Saturated fats are solid at room temperature.  Focusing on getting our fats from healthy whole food sources like nuts and seeds, oily fish, and the like is a good way to get what we need without overdoing it.

 

We don’t sit down to a nice plate of protein, carbs, and fat, though.  We eat food.  I’ll talk about that tomorrow.

Thursday List: 7 More

So:  it’s time to recover.  What are we going to do?  Here are some ideas:

 

1.     Sleep.

2.     Eat.  Preferably something with actual nutrition in it, but something is better than nothing.

3.     Chill.  The fancy term for this is “quiet wakefulness.”  It can mean anything from meditating to reading to staring into space.

4.     Light movement.  This would be something like gentle stretching or a bit of a stroll just to keep the muscles limber and lithe.

5.     Hot or cold.  Or both!  Some folks like alternating sauna and cold plunge.  Some folks swear by ice.  Others are all about the heating pad.  Do you, but consider that ice is generally great for reducing swelling and heat is generally very soothing.

6.     Stuff that pushes on the body.  On the expensive end, we have massage.  Somewhere in the middle we have percussive therapy (the massage guns range in price, but the most expensive ones I saw in a quick visit online were about $150 and most were significantly cheaper).  For the budget minded, we have foam rollers and all their various relatives.  All of them help our bodies release tension and allow us to build flexibility.

7.     Other stuff.  That can be things like acupuncture or going outside or doing puzzles or looking at art.  If it feeds your soul, it’s good for recovery.

Recovery and Healing, Part 2

When we are “just” sore from whatever kind of movement we’ve been doing, whether it is our first steps around the block or our hardest, heaviest weight workout to date, we need to take some steps to recover.  Heck, even if we are not sore, we need to make sure that we give our bodies space and time and care for recovery.  Bodies like that.

The low-hanging fruit of recovery is pretty much stuff we should be doing anyway:  eating food that is good for us, getting enough sleep, and taking time for mental relaxation.  (This may be time to give ourselves a pat on the back:  we were doing an awesome job without even thinking about it!  Go us!)

 

If we need something a bit more direct, we have even more fun options, ranging from light movement (think yoga and stretching of a very gentle stroll) to massage to foam rolling. 

 

I want to be clear about something.  Often in our hustle culture, we absorb the attitude that we don’t have time to recover.  Our societal anxiety about being and doing enough can make us feel like rest is a waste of time and frivolous.  This is not true.  All of us deserve to rest and recover because we are valuable humans even if we do exactly nothing more with the rest of our existence.  And, if that turns out not to be convincing, I’ll give y’all’s Protestant work ethic a reason to recover:  it will make us more productive in the long run.  (I like the first reason better.  We are all beloved children of God or essential parts of the universe or however you prefer to phrase it to yourself.)  Bottom line:  work and then rest.

Recovery and Healing, Part 1

Another aspect of wellness is how we deal with recovery and healing.  That’s the focus for this week.

When we start getting more movement into our lives, we sometimes get sore.  And most of us, at some point in our lives, will have to deal with some kind of injury that requires us to pay attention to healing.  Recovery and healing often have similar aspects, but they are not entirely the same.

 

Today I’m going to be Captain Obvious and say:  if you are injured, seek medical attention.  DIY is all well and good, but most of us aren’t actually doctors.  Get a professional to check you out and then follow their advice.

 

Tomorrow:  dealing with non-injury recovery.