Cardio Favorites 2

My other favorite cardio exercise is swimming.  I have said, semi-seriously, more than once, that my personal aromatherapy scents are chlorine and sunscreen and maybe a hint of grape soda because those are the smells of my childhood summers.

Swimming is a great cardio exercise for a bunch of reasons.  It’s not an impact sport, so it’s easy on the joints.  The water provides resistance, so it’s a good amount of work.  The work is in water, natch, so there isn’t that uncomfortable sweaty feeling.

 

There’s a funny thing about swimming for me.  I am not a particularly great swimmer.  I couldn’t do a flip turn to save my life and I have never met a pair of goggles that I like.  What’s great is that it doesn’t really matter.  I get a perfectly good workout and I have a fabulous time.  Over time, I am improving, but I don’t have any Big Goals about swimming, except not drowning.

 

Go play.

Cardio Favorites 1

For years, August has been, to be polite, not my favorite month.  I have learned not to plan to get anything in particular done during August.  This year, my coping strategy is:  lean into my favorite things.  All month, I’ll be highlighting my favorite fitness things!

This week, I’m starting with my favorite cardio exercises because there really is nothing better for lifting mood than getting in some heart-pounding work.

 

My very favorite cardio comes from bikes.  There is no quicker way to make me feel like an ecstatic nine-year-old than to pop me on a bike.  I like the kind of work I do when I ride, I like getting outside, I like zooming around.

 

When it is dark or wet, I have my spin bike, which is nearly as good.  The scenery isn’t much, but I have good music and a distinct lack of excuses to get going.

 

What’s your very favorite?  (More of mine tomorrow!)

Interdependence: Work, rest, eat

Workouts, as we know, don’t occur in a vacuum.  It’s hard to breathe there.  (Sorry/not sorry for the joke.)  Our workouts are part of the larger picture of our lives.

This means that we can’t just keep working out more and more.  We may try to do that and we find that it doesn’t end well.  We get frustrated because we’re working so hard and we’re not getting the results we want.

 

Workouts require the support of adequate rest and good nutrition.  If we’re not sleeping and we’re living on sugar and caffeine, we’re not going to sustain a healthy workout load.  We need all the pieces of the puzzle.

 

So:  eat well, sleep well, work enough to get tired and hungry.

Interdependence: Pilates and weights

One way that interdependence plays out in workouts is in the synergy between weight training and Pilates.

As everyone knows, I offer both personal training and Pilates.  When asked which one someone should do, I usually say that both are good, and not because I want more business.  Both are good, and they’re better together.

 

Here’s why.  Weight training increases our strength.  It’s where we build lean body mass, encourage our metabolism, and acquire what we think of as “tone.”  Those are all good things.  However, if we want the most benefit from the work we do with weights, we need to hone our form.

 

This is where Pilates is so beneficial.  In Pilates, we train our proprioception (five dollar word for “knowing where our bodies are in space”).  We work on our alignment.  We challenge our stabilizing muscles.  We open up both our range of motion and our control of that range.  When we apply our Pilates skills in our weight training context, we get better results.

 

Conversely, when we bring our strength to Pilates, we open up more of the repertoire.  We can tackle some of the challenging exercises without worrying that our basic strength isn’t up to them.

 

All that said, some of us do better starting with one or the other.  If you want guidance, you know where to find me.

Interdepence

Interdependence has a lot of relevance in a workout context.  As I’ll be talking about over the rest of the month, the different kinds of workouts we do are interdependent, as are the things we do outside of our workouts.

Today, though, I want to focus on how our workouts make us better community members.  When we get strong and fit, when we take care of our own health, we increase our ability to give back to the people around us.

 

We are soaking in a culture that wants us to believe in competition as a supreme virtue.  That same culture feeds us the idea that we can be “self-made.”  Let’s reality-check that a little.

 

Competition, maybe, has its place.  When it is used for good, it can spur us on to achieve more than we might otherwise.  However, I think we all get farther when we rely on cooperation.  When we work together to make sure we all succeed, not only do we all have success, we have a nicer environment in which to enjoy that success.

 

And we do need other people.  We are social animals.  When we were children, we needed parents or other caregivers to feed and tend us.  As adults, we thrive best when we are surrounded by family and friends who love us and whom we love in return.

 

In a workout context, what this means is that when we individually get stronger, we all get stronger.  When we encourage each other, we all do better.  And, sometimes, we are willing to do things for other people that we’re not willing to do for ourselves.  When my kids were small, I needed to be strong and healthy to be there for them.  As our parents age, we need to be strong and healthy to help them out, too.  We have to pay forward the gifts we have been given.

 

I know this is really abstract and high-level, but we need to know why we are lifting those heavy weights and sweating it out on the treadmill.  It’s to make the world better.

Independence, Part 9

Up to this point in the month, we’ve been talking about independence as a list of things we get to do or not do.  But that’s only part of the story.

When we are independent, we take on a good chunk of responsibility.

 

There is a security inherent in being dependent.  We know what to do.  We know what the consequences are when we don’t do what we’re supposed to do.  We understand the rules.

 

When we are independent, we have to make our own order.  We have to figure out how to live healthy and happy lives without infringing on other folks’ ability to live their healthy and happy lives.

 

We have to find the balance between taking care of ourselves and taking care of our duties to our family and friends and larger society.  Sometimes a workout gets top priority.  Sometimes we miss one because we have a sick kid or a work deadline.  We need to stay tuned in to all the shifting priorities.

 

Because, truth is, we are both independent and interdependent at the same time.  We don’t get healthy and happy alone.

 

I’ll be exploring that over the next while.

Independence, Part 7

Today’s declaration of independence is that we are independent of stupid opinions.  This is similar to what we talked about yesterday, but perhaps a little more personal.

A whole lot of people seem to think they are entitled to have opinions about what we do.  We can’t control what goes on in their heads.  Usually we have enough to do dealing with what’s in our own heads.  But, there those folks are, spouting off about how we should or shouldn’t do whatever it is we’ve decided to do.

 

When those folks are motivated by our “own good,” it can be hard to blow them off.  But until they live in our skin, they really don’t get a vote.  Our loved ones love us.  They worry when we change, even when we start changing for the better.  Sometimes they do have skills or experiences we don’t have, but that doesn’t mean that what they know is right for us.  We need to find our own paths.  With people who are motivated by love of us, our technique is this:  Thanks for your input.  I’ll consider what you say.

 

(Some people are not even a little bit motivated by our best interest.  They want to control us or keep us small or weak or unhealthy for their own reasons.  When we get up the courage to be our fabulous selves, they get mad and manipulative.  If thanking them for their input doesn’t do the trick, it is all right to choose not to deal with them at all.  We are not put here to be abused by other people.  Please do whatever is necessary to get out of unsafe circumstances.  Really.)

 

Working out is hard enough.  We don’t need to add emotional workouts on top.

 

Independence, Part 6

While we are getting independent this month, another area we can explore is freedom from stereotypes.

Such as:  women can’t lift heavy.  Or men are inflexible.  Or old people can’t be strong.  Or people with (fill in the condition) can’t do things.

 

People who are alive have the ability to change.  It’s kind of definitional.  (When dead people change, it’s not exactly on purpose and we really don’t need to talk about that.)  The cool thing about our bodies is that they change in response to what we do.  If we practice getting faster, we get faster.  If we practice getting stronger, we get stronger.

 

So maybe at the start, women who have been told for a lifetime that it’s unladylike to lift weights and get strong don’t lift really heavy weights.  We lift weights that are heavy for us.  As we progress, we continue to lift weights that are heavy for us until someday we are lifting weights that the Almighty They think are heavy.  Usually by that point we don’t care what They think, or if we think about Them at all it is with a little burst of I-showed-YOU.

 

I’m not going to say that limitations aren’t real.  Gravity exists.  Our bodies can tolerate only so much work before they break.  But for most of us, the limitations are much farther away than we think they are.  If a stereotype isn’t helping, ditch it!

 

Go play.

Independence, Part 4

Another thing we can declare independence from is ideals.  Don’t get me wrong:  I am an idealist.  But we live in the real world, which is often less than ideal.

In our workouts, there are lots of folks out there who will tell us what the ideal routine for us is.  They’ll give us helpful information about heart rates, duration, volume of training, speed, tempo, and all kinds of other stuff.  It’s not that that stuff isn’t useful; it just might not work for us in our particular circumstance.

 

In an ideal world, we’d all get 150 minutes of moderate cardio exercise every week.  Expecting to meet that standard when we haven’t been off the couch in years is not realistic or workable.  Some of us are coming back from injuries, or have difficulty finding a safe place to work out.

 

The ideal workout, from a practical perspective, is the one we do.  It’s the one that empowers us to do the other stuff we want to do, like live a long time or play sharks and minnows with the grandkids in the pool.  Sure, we can aim for the ideals, but we shouldn’t be upset when our ideal is not somebody else’s.

 

Go play.

Independence, Part 3

One of the biggest things we can declare independence from in our workout life is other people’s goals.  This can be a challenge.

What do I mean?

 

Let’s say, for example, that I have just hopped on a bike for the first time in years.  I have a great time.  And, as I start telling people about it, they start telling me about century rides, or hill rides, or single track mountain bike rides.  They suggest different shoes or fancy gear or maybe even a brand new bike.  All of that is intended to be helpful, but mostly it’s discouraging.  I’m at the very beginning.  I want to pedal and have fun and I don’t want to overthink things.  I need to declare my independence from their ideas about what I need to do and do what I want.

 

Or, another example.  Imagine I have never been to the gym before.  I think I might like to try some stuff there and I tag along with a friend, who happens to be a true gym rat.  He shows me his heavy lifting routine, which takes approximately two hours and involves really big dumbbells and barbells.  I go home and think:  I am never going back there again.  It’s too hard and scary.  Instead, I can declare independence from my friend, however well-meaning he is, and I can start with a short workout that is appropriate for my own body.

 

One more.  Imagine I have a routine in which I go to the gym for a Zumba class every week.  I have friends there.  It’s fun.  I feel energetic and good at the end.  But imagine I have a less-helpful friend/partner/parent who thinks I’m not doing enough because I’m not losing weight.  I can declare independence from that person and do what makes me feel powerful and good in my skin.

 

We are all unique snowflakes.  We all have things we like and dislike.  The best workout is the one we will actually do.

 

Go play.

Independence, Part 2: 8

While working on fitness tends to enable our pursuit of happiness, sometimes the fitness work itself can be happy.  Here are some happy workouts:

 

1.     Dance

2.     Yoga

3.     Pickleball

4.     Swimming

5.     Tag with the kids

6.     That sport you love

7.     That hike that inspires you

8.     That thing you do with friends and you end up laughing until your abs hurt

9.     Add your own

Independence, Part 1

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”  Declaration of Independence

 

The Declaration of Independence is one of the founding documents of our country.  Despite its problems (“all men” meant everybody, until people of color and women wanted to be equal, just for example), the declaration inspires us with its list of rights:  life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.  When it comes time to consider our fitness, it is a pretty good place to start getting inspired.

 

Take life.  Of course, the very basics of life are about keeping breathing.  Fitness work helps us do that, for sure.  But it also improves the quality of the life we have.  When we get stronger and improve our cardio fitness, when we work on our balance and flexibility, we open up so much more of life.  We’re not so limited in the activities we can engage in.  We feel better.

 

Liberty?  We all have tons of choices, every single day.  When we work out, we increase the number of viable choices we have.  Let me explain.  I could wake up and decide to run away to join the circus.  My odds of getting hired by the circus for anything beyond cleaning up after the animals (although I hope there aren’t any more circuses with animals) improve if I have actual skills that the circus can use.  If I work out hard and build up my upper body strength, I might have a shot at succeeding at trapeze.  If I focus on balance, I might be able to walk the tightrope.  The choices we make today enable the choices we want to make in the future.

 

Then there is the pursuit of happiness.  Any time we’re dealing with pursuit, we want both speed and endurance.  Fine.  I know it’s not a literal pursuit.  But again, happiness is much easier to find when we feel good.  Feeling good is one of my favorite outcomes of working out.

 

So:  get independent and work out!

Wellness Check: Mental and Emotional Wellbeing

On this last day of the month, I am going to spend a minute or so talking about mental and emotional wellbeing.  This is maybe the hardest piece of the wellness puzzle.

All the other things I’ve talked about this month feed into our mental and emotional wellbeing.  They give us the healthy body in which to keep our healthy mind.  For many of us, using the tools for movement, recovery, sleep, and nutrition will give us enough support that we have no trouble with our mental and emotional wellbeing.

 

Many of us may also need a few more tools.

 

This part is important:  I am not a doctor or a therapist or a psychologist.  If you are experiencing serious depression or other mental illness, PLEASE get professional health.  You are 100% worth it and you deserve a healthy and happy life.

 

If our struggle feels like something we can manage ourselves, I have two more tools to suggest.  The first one is stress reduction.  Sadly, stress reduction in this context does not mean that I wave a wand and all the bad stressors in our lives go away.  If only.  It can mean anything from improving our time management to acquiring a meditation practice for three minutes a day.  What reduces stress for some folks doesn’t for others, so, again, experimentation is in order.  Find a couple things that work and keep a list for those times when the stress goes to eleven.

 

The other tool?  Fun.  Sometimes wellness seems like just another list of tasks in an already task-overloaded life.  We have to have some fun, whether that’s laughing our butts off at a silly movie or playing a game with the kids or reading quietly by ourselves for a while.  We all know the things we love to do and don’t do often enough.  Do those things.

 

Be well.

Wellness Check: Nutrition 2

Anybody who knows me will not be surprised that my favorite technique for good nutrition is planning ahead, since it’s my favorite technique for almost everything.  There are some particularly good reasons to use planning for nutrition, however.

One is that hungry people make less good decisions.  If I plan my meals and have healthy choices on hand, I’m a lot less likely to choose ice cream for dinner.  (It’s a sad reality that once we become grown-ups and can have whatever we want for dinner, we also know that ice cream is not the best choice.  Even when we are stressed out.)

 

Another is that we can incorporate more variety.  When we buy a bunch of different vegetables with an actual plan for using them, it’s a lot easier to “eat the rainbow.”  We can experiment, maybe one night a week, with a new recipe or even a new cuisine.  (You know that experimenting is one of my other favorite techniques!)

 

Meal planning is not rocket science.  It’s definitely a skill, and skills can be acquired.  I’ve been doing it for a long time, so it’s easy and obvious to me, but when I started out, I sometimes planned too much food and sometimes too little.  Nobody died, I learned, and my family eats better than if I just opened the fridge every day and had to figure out what to feed them in the moment.

 

Try it and see how it works for you!

Wellness Check: Nutrition 1

There is a lot of nutritional advice out there, much of it conflicting.  Worse, the easiest foods to get in our culture are the ones that are not particularly good for us.  This combination, plus the overall busy-ness of our lives, can lead to poor eating habits.  It’s entirely understandable that we don’t eat the best foods for us.  Fast food companies have huge advertising budgets, fad diets make their creators rich, and trusted sources of information are scarce on the ground.

So what should we eat?

 

There are some basics to consider.  We need enough calories in our food to power our activities.  Those calories, ideally, should come from lean sources of protein, whole grains, vegetables, good-for-us fats, fruits, nuts, and seeds.  Those of us who are older, who work out a lot, or are still growing may need more protein than we think.

 

If we are eating a varied diet, our vitamin and mineral needs may take care of themselves.  A multivitamin can be insurance against any lacks, but I’m not going to recommend a whole suite of supplements (they have a big industry behind them, too.).

 

The general principle is that food is most nutritious for us when it is closest to how it started.  An apple, with its peel, is better for us than a glass of apple juice, no matter how organic and free range.  (Yes, I know that apples do not fall far from the tree and thus do not range at all, but it makes me laugh to think of them doing so willy-nilly.)

 

It is also important that our food gives us joy.  There are certainly times when it is absolutely good for us to eat a food that is not the most nutritional choice—celebratory pizza with the kids after a great report card springs to mind, or eating Grandma’s special pie on a visit with her.  The key is to make those choices consciously and occasionally.

 

More tomorrow!

Wellness Check: Sleep 2

For adults, the ideal amount of sleep falls somewhere in the seven to nine hours per night range.  (It is possible that you are the one special snowflake who really does function well on four or five hours, but I doubt it.  Try getting a little more and see how you feel.  I’ll wait.)

Getting those hours in requires some planning.  I love a good routine, and routines work great for sleep.

 

The first thing we need to do is to set a bedtime.  I know this might make you feel like you are eight and you’re being deprived of watching all the good shows that come on late, but, people, nowadays we watch things on streaming whenever we want, so let’s get over it.  Then we need to work backwards from the time we want to crawl into bed and figure out what time we need to start getting there.

 

Personally, I am a morning person.  I am lucky if my bedtime routine includes brushing my teeth.  When I had younger kids, though, my routine had to include their routines, plus making sure that there was clean laundry to wear.  Some people like to lay out clothes the night before.  Others are lunch preppers.  Make a list of all those things and figure out how long they take.

 

Then you need to be a grown-up and enforce bedtime on yourself.

 

I know.  No fun.  But definitely useful.

 

Tomorrow:  more techniques for better sleep.

Wellness Check: Sleep 1

It pains me that most of us are running around on not enough sleep.  Sure, we’ve all had to pull the occasional all-nighter for school or work, and we’ve all also had times when we were having so much fun that sleep seemed irrelevant.  Many of us have dealt with the sleep deprivation that comes with a new baby, or even, sometimes a new puppy.  All that stuff is part of life.

The sleep deficits I’m talking about are the ones we develop as a result of the increasing cultural pressure to do more, faster, and all the time.  Our work creeps into our “off” time.  Our off time is full of activities for ourselves and our kids.  Then there’s the housework and the yardwork and the volunteering in our communities and oh, yeah, we’re supposed to keep up on current events and the world needs saving and what the heck am I making for dinner?  Sleep starts to seem like a luxury.  That is not ok.

 

First of all, let me remind everyone, again, that they are beloved children of God, or valuable humans, or essential to the world, however you best hear it, just by existing.  You are enough, without doing anything.  I start from the premise that everyone deserves to be healthy and happy.  Sleep is part of that.

 

While we sleep, our brains and bodies take out the trash.  Memories consolidate.  Muscles repair themselves.  We can’t possibly be really healthy without enough sleep.

 

Still not convinced?  Fine.  We are less productive when we are overtired.  (I hate that we hyperfocus on production, but if that’s the lever I need to push to get folks to rest, I’ll do it!)  Tired people have accidents, make mistakes, and take longer to complete tasks.  Plus they tend to be crabby.

 

Maybe we started the year with some good intentions around getting enough sleep and as time went on, we got distracted.  Now is a great time to get back on track.  Tomorrow I’ll talk about what that might look like and how we might get there.

Wellness Check: Recovery and Regeneration 2

I hope that yesterday I convinced everyone that recovery and regeneration are important.  As we check in here in the middle of the year, we might notice that rest has not been as plentiful as we would have liked, or that we are more sore than would be ideal, or that we find ourselves catching every bug that goes around.  Those are all good signs that moving recovery up the priority list might be an idea to consider.

The top three techniques for recovery are things we pretty much have to do anyway.  The key is to do them to the right extent and to the right standard.

 

Number one is our sleep.  I’ll be focusing in on this particular modality all week next week, but let’s start with one idea:  get seven hours.  (We can argue about why that’s not possible in the future, but for now, just try it.)

 

The second top technique for recovery is nutrition.  I’ll spend the week after next unpacking this one in more detail, too, because there’s lots to think about, but for now, I just need to remind everyone (even me) that running on sugar and caffeine is not a sustainable practice.  Eat a vegetable every once in a while, at least!

 

The third top technique is hydration.  All liquids count toward our total hydration, but our best choice, most of the time, is water.  Aim for half your body weight in ounces per day (e.g., if you weigh 3,000 pounds, you want to drink 1,500 ounces of water; I chose a ridiculous quantity because some of us fixate way too much on scale numbers.)  (If you do, in fact, weight 3,000 pounds, please do not be offended.  I am impressed that your walrus self has learned to read!)  If that sounds like too much math, try to drink enough that you need to use the bathroom every hour or so.

 

Good news, right?  We have to sleep and eat and drink just to keep existing.  We’re already doing an adequate job because here we are, still breathing!  And just a few little tweaks can make us feel even better.

 

Need help?  I’m a wellness coach, you know.  I can help you set achievable goals in every area of wellness.

Wellness Check: Recovery and Regeneration 1

Once we get back into our movement and/or exercise routines, we discover (or rediscover) that recovery and regeneration are important.  There is a current in gym culture that I deeply object to and it is the “no pain, no gain” and related stuff.  Yes, we sometimes have to get uncomfortable to make progress, but if we are in pain, something is actually wrong.

Further, without recovery, we don’t make gains.  Our muscles get stronger not while we are working, but when we are done, when we rest and the microdamage we have caused repairs itself, only better.

 

Recovery and regeneration are not intuitive in our wider culture either.  We hear a lot about hustling and we glamorize being so busy that we don’t have time to sleep or eat.  Excuse me, but no.

 

Tired and sore people are usually not happy people.  (I say usually because there are certainly times, like after a really intense workout, where we are happy because we’ve done more than we ever thought we could, or broke a personal record, or are bathing in endorphins.)  When we chronically deprive ourselves of recovery and regeneration, we are depriving ourselves, not only of our best performance, but of our best existence.  (This is the part where I insist that you are valuable and wonderful and need to be in the world even if you don’t do anything.  You are not your performance, no matter what your boss or your family or ads tell you.)

 

So:  How is recovery going for you?  (Tomorrow I’m going to talk about things you might do to recover, in case you need ideas to reboot.)

Wellness Check: Movement 2

If we’re already nailing the part where we move our bodies on the regular, it might be time to consider whether we’re getting enough exercise.  All bodies need exercise; what that exercise consists of varies from body to body.  What follows are some general principles that need to be applied with love and common sense.

There are three categories of exercise that most people need:  cardio, strength training, and balance/flexibility work.  The guideline for cardio is that we need to get our heart rate up for about 150 minutes per week, which works out to 30 minutes a day for five days.  There is some math we can do to figure out what constitutes “up” (220 minus your age gives you your maximum heart rate.  Your cardio range is from 65-85% of that number.), but I personally like the talk test better:  if you can talk with some pauses for breath, you’re working hard enough; if you can sing, you’re not doing the job; if you can’t carry on a conversation, you’re doing too much.  How you get your heart rate up is up to you.  The possibilities are legion:  walk, run, swim, bike, play soccer, chase the kids, do stairs, dance…  Bottom line:  five days, 30 minutes, briskly.

 

For strength training, we want to do one to three strength workouts per week.  What we do depends on our goals.  Talking to a trainer (hey, that’s me!) can help clarify what might be a good idea.  No matter what the goals are, we want to use weights heavy enough that it’s hard for us to complete the final rep in a set.  The number on the dumbbell should go up as we keep working, not every time, but every couple months at least.

 

Balance and flexibility are skills.  I know a lot of us think of them as talents, but both things improve with practice.  There are a couple of ways to go about that practice.  There are always yoga and Pilates classes or individual sessions (yep, me again!).  However, we can use those otherwise wasted minutes throughout our day to build in some practice time.  We can stand on one foot while we brush our teeth.  We can stretch while we wait for the microwave.  We can do some single leg squats in line at the grocery store (bonus points for amusing our fellow shoppers).

 

If all that still seems complicated, talk to me.  I’d be happy to help sort it out.