Wednesday, May 27, 2026

Mother May I: Far






There might be a theme emerging here.  Yesterday, I said we didn’t have to go far if we didn’t want to.  Today I would like to emphasize that we are allowed to go far, too.  Just because somebody else thinks is silly to ride 100 miles on a bike or run a marathon or do a triathlon doesn’t mean we need to listen to them.  Some of us really love our endurance events and that’s cool.

The overarching principle here, as in the whole month, is that we get to choose what our workouts are based on what works for us.  We are allowed to have whatever workout we want.

 

Anybody who argues with us about this can be ignored.

 

Go play.

Tuesday, May 26, 2026

Mother May I: Not Far






This week’s permissions are similar to last week’s.  Today, we have permission not to go far.

While it is true that often the hardest part of a workout is starting it, we can get overwhelmed by the sense that we can’t just run; we have to run far.  We can’t just go for a swim; we have to do a gazillion laps.  And so on.

 

Some days, we just don’t have a lot of oomph to work with.  On those days, we do, in fact, get credit just for showing up.  We may not build a lot of muscles in our body, but our character muscles get bigger.

Monday, May 25, 2026

Monday Workout: Bit Different







The end-of-month circuit, as usual, is a bit different.  My goals with the shorter circuit include some cardio challenge (see woodchoppers immediately after a minute of cardio of choice, and back to back burpees and tap backs), some endurance challenge (doing the other exercises in the circuit after the cardio bits without resting), and practice with challenge (hiya, burpees!).  As always, I love my compound exercises that work a bunch of stuff at once.  Ideally, we do four rounds, but use good judgment about what is best.

 

1 min cardio

 

 

 

woodchoppers

30

flies

20

burpees

10

tap backs

30

bench press

20

brains

10

  

Thursday, May 21, 2026

Mother May I: 3






When we’re kids, people bribe us to do stuff.  Behave at the doctor?  Get a sucker.  Good report card?  Pizza for you.  Now that we’re adults, we get to set our own rewards for working out.  May I suggest:

 

1.     Massage.  Or a hot bath.  Or anything that makes your body feel fabulous.

2.     Milestone treats.  Chop up that big goal and reward yourself for each segment.  This could be a scale number, a distance reached, a weight lifted, or whatever else you’re measuring.  Make it small enough to be manageable but big enough to be meaningful.

3.     New gear.  Who doesn’t love getting new workout clothes?  Or comfy shoes?  Or a cool new thingamajig for that activity we love?

Wednesday, May 20, 2026

Mother May I: Go Slow






Yesterday, I reminded us all that we can go as fast as we want to.  Today I want to clarify:  that might mean not going fast at all.

We can choose the pace we like best for our workouts.  Some of us prefer to work out longer at a more manageable pace compared to our hare friends.  Tortoises have just as much fitness success.

 

One application of this principle is that nobody has to run who doesn’t want to.  We can get just as much fitness from walking.  The best exercise is the exercise we will do.

 

Go play.  At your own pace.

Tuesday, May 19, 2026

Mother May I: Go Fast






If you want to, you have permission to go fast.  You don’t have to wait for anybody else.  You don’t have to waste any time.  As long as you are working with good form, you can go as fast as you want and that is entirely good.

A lot of us who were raised female got the message that we shouldn’t be too fast or too good at stuff.  It might cause awkward questions.  We don’t need that kind of baggage.  We can run as fast as we possibly can and no one gets to tell us not to.

 

Go play.

Monday, May 18, 2026

Monday Workout: Still Obsessing About Balance






Balance requires lots of things, from proprioception to strong stabilizers and more.  The compound exercises here and the ones that work asymmetrically help us improve balance.  Three rounds.

 

jacks

30

skullcrushers

20

renegade rows

10

 

 

kb alt arm swing

30

kb hammer curl

20

kb halo

10

 

 

1 arm clean and press

30

Arnold press

20

windscreen wipers

10