I’ll start with a confession. I have really struggled to put together an evening routine. Morning routine: no problem. Evening rolls around and I’m like, “Routine? Is that even a thing?” But, knowing the benefits, I keep working on it and I’m making a bit of progress.
(The benefits are: I feel more prepared for the next day, I fall asleep faster, and I sleep better. Also, my teeth are brushed.)
What kind of stuff goes into a bedtime routine? Surprisingly, best results come from starting up to 8 hours before bed. (OK, so it’s not like we just stop doing stuff at 2; we just tick off a couple things then.) Around eight hours before bed, we might want to stop with the caffeine. While it is probably better for us not to have nicotine ever, if we are users, we want to try to stop using around the same time.
Around an hour before bed, we want to turn off the tv, shut down the screens, and stop working. This supports our melatonin production by limiting our exposure to blue light and also helps us turn down the stress.
If possible, a half hour before bed we can dim the lights further. When we are in an environment that is about candlelight-bright, we stimulate dim-light melatonin onset, which in turn helps us to have an uninterrupted night of sleep. Then we can take a hot shower to relax our bodies further.
When we turn in, we will sleep best in a cool, dark, quiet room. This may require interventions like a sleep mask, ear plugs, a noise machine, or the like. Preparation helps.

