I’m taking this fitness
nutrition course on purpose. I do believe
that knowing more about how food creates health in the body is important, but
an intellectual approach is not the whole story. I was pleased to learn about intuitive eating
in my text. (There is a website: www.intuitiveeating.org)
We don’t eat nutrients. We eat food.
And we choose foods for lots of different reasons. Intuitive eating provides us a framework for
choice that takes into account our whole selves.
Here are the ten points
of intuitive eating. I’m quoting the
points themselves, but the commentary is mine.
1.
Reject the
Diet Mentality. We’re just eating
here. We’re not losing weight, improving
our character, or depriving ourselves of happiness in the pursuit of some weird
ideal.
2.
Honor Your Hunger. If we don’t eat when we are hungry, we tend
to get too hungry to eat with anything like self-control. Our goal is to learn to trust ourselves and
food.
3.
Make Peace with
Food. Nothing is totally off
limits. Forbidden foods are just temptations
for a binge.
4.
Challenge the
Food Police. Our moral worth is not
based on our food choices. We can be
good people who eat chocolate cake, or total jerks who eat salad all the time. The two things are not related.
5.
Respect Your
Fullness. This one can be hard for us
because we have stopped paying attention.
We’re hurrying to finish, or we’re paying attention to the conversation,
or it seems silly to leave those last three bites. We need to learn to pause and evaluate
whether we feel full, how things taste, whether we’re done.
6.
Discover the Satisfaction
Factor. (I am allowed to use the word “holistic”
because I lived in Berkeley for 20 years; it’s a rule.) When eating is a holistic
process, one that feeds all our senses, that we design to create pleasure, we
find out that we don’t need quite so much food; we’re seeking pleasure, not
cake per se.
7.
Honor Your
Feelings Without Using Food. This is
another challenging one. The nice thing
about hunger as a need is that it has an obvious solution: eating.
When the hunger is metaphorical, for company or connection or peace or
whatever, we get tempted to feed it with literal food instead of what we are
actually hungry for. We need to seek out
the real ways to meet our needs rather than swallowing them along with the Ben
& Jerry’s.
8.
Respect Your
Body. Period. It’s amazing.
No matter what shape it is. The
intuitive eating folks provide a useful way of thinking about it: if we have size 8 feet, we do not feel like
we have to wear size 6 shoes to be beautiful or moral or right. Some of our bodies are size 8 (or 270 or 93
or whatever random number we choose) and should not be punished for not being
some other number.
9.
Exercise—feel
the difference. It’s about how we feel,
not about what it does. When we get
energized by our morning walk or feel powerful because of our weight lifting,
we want to do it. Exercise is never supposed
to be a punishment. Sure, it burns
calories and can change our body composition, but mostly it improves our
outlook.
10.
Honor Your
Health—Gentle Nutrition. We don’t need
to eat a perfect diet to be healthy. We
do need to honor what our bodies need to feel well. We can choose foods we enjoy that give us the
best possible health.
Try it!