We all have things that scare the
pants off of us: spiders,
midterms, vampires, romance novels, long conversations with our odder relatives
with extreme views. “Diets” are
one of those things for me.
I admit, I am scarred. I recently tried grapefruit again for
the first time since I was a kid.
It is not going to be my favorite fruit, but I also know that it doesn’t
taste like I remembered. I think
that is because I remember it in the context of my mom and my grandmother doing
a grapefruit diet one summer. Half
a grapefruit with artificial sweetener and a cup of black coffee in the morning
does not make for the happiest mom in the world. It was best to steer clear until the lunchtime cottage
cheese came out. I am sure that
both ladies lost plenty of weight over the time they stuck to the program, but
I also know they gained it all back.
What we need is to build a
healthy relationship with our food.
Some of that means meeting our foods for real, not in their boxed-up,
salty, sexy marketing versions.
This may take some adjustment, but it also may be joyful for those of us
who grew up on canned peas and instant mashed potatoes and fish sticks and who
survived college on ramen soup and popcorn. Some of us may never have considered what the greens in our
salads actually taste like because what we taste is creamy, fatty, processed
dressing. I learned a lot when I
stopped dressing my salads, and most of it was good. There are lots of greens out there, so I don’t have to eat
the ones I don’t like (that means you, radicchio, even though you are purple
and not green, and you, frisée, even if you are pretty).
Another big part of our
relationship with food that may need adjusting is quantity. We can love our whole grain organic macaroni
with cheese made from free-range fair-trade shade-grown cows without eating an
entire vat of it. In fact, if it
is made with real ingredients and love, a smaller portion might be even more
satisfying than a vat, especially since we will still be able to move after
dinner.
Also, savoring is important. There are times when we must eat all of
the food in the world right now because we just finished carrying a team of
sled dogs on our backs over the Iditarod route, but most of the time we can
pause to enjoy and taste. We may
discover that when we slow down, we don’t need to eat as much.
Short version: let’s eat good food that treats us well
and enjoy it rather than making food into an unsustainable, harmful torture,
with or without grapefruit.