Sometimes in fitness we
do things that scare us. The first
workout back after an injury, for example, can be anxiety-provoking for many
reasons, including the fear that we will reinjure ourselves or that we have lost
too much ground while we’ve been recovering or that we’ll never be the same
again.
Or maybe we are going
along happily doing our skiing or climbing or boxing and a Bad Thing happens,
whether that’s a fall or an injury or a crash or a blow or something else. We have to deal with the thing itself, but
also with the wave of emotion that comes with it.
Or maybe we’ve never
tried a particular class or activity before and we just don’t know how it is
going to work for us. Maybe we won’t be
good at it or the instructor could be mean or the regulars won’t make space for
us.
Whatever it is, there are
ways to cope. The most basic is to focus
on breathing. As long as we keep doing
that, it’s going to be all right. We can
also collect information ahead of time about warm-ups or preparatory drills or
stretches, about the instructor, about what kind of moves are potentially risky
for whatever condition we are dealing with and deploy that knowledge to keep
ourselves safe. We can recruit a team or
a buddy to go with us, whether that’s a coach or a therapist or a trainer or
just a willing friend who will support us when the going gets tough.
Fitness is about getting
more powerful, but not always in the ways we expect.