While it is absolutely
true that I have certain exercises that are my favorite, there are others that
are not my favorite. My least-favorite
list is not quite the same as anyone else’s because—news flash!—we are all
unique. The good news is that there is
almost always some other way to work the same muscle groups, so for the most
part we can avoid the exercises that fill us with dread or fear.
Let me digress for a
moment: dread, the way I’m using it, is
that feeling that we just don’t want to do it.
Whatever we’re dreading isn’t going to cause damage, but it isn’t going to
be fun either. We’ll suck it up if we
have to, but really, we’d rather be doing pretty much anything else. Fear is a different animal. We have real concerns that what we are contemplating
might hurt us, that we could fail, that something is going to go horribly
wrong. We deal, on the whole, pretty
well with dread all by ourselves, but fear is something we can use some help
with from time to time. In a fitness
context, fear might mean that we move an exercise to a more stable position
(from the Bosu to the ground, or off the TRX to a bench) or we use a lighter
weight until we are confident about the movements or we just stop and breathe
for a few moments to collect ourselves.
I try to help my clients examine exactly what it is that is underlying
the fear and then we break the Big Scary Task into something more manageable
with whatever tools and encouragement we need.
End of digression.
So: if someone really detests skullcrushers, she
can try kickbacks instead. If a person
would rather be shot than do jumping jacks, he can substitute any other cardio
exercise and make sure that there is some lateral motion somewhere else in the workout.
Often times, the perceived
evil of an exercise comes from the fact that we’re not ready to do it yet. People who hate regular pushups may find that
doing them on a wall or bench where there is less load makes them much more tolerable. A stability ball against a wall can make the
difference between a good squat and an actual torture.
I believe that workouts
should not hurt. We may get uncomfortable,
but anything that causes pain is right out.
And if we can build in as much fun as possible while working hard, that
is the best outcome of all.
Let’s play.