I wrote a list of rewards last
week (remember?). That kind of
list can come in handy when it’s time to make a deal with ourselves.
When we do it formally, the
Almighty They call it Contingency Contracting. We can write down an actual statement. For example, “If I complete two weight
workouts this week, I get to have a pedicure.”
If we need extra formality, we
can give the contract to someone else as our enforcement arm. Posting the contract on the fridge or
bathroom mirror serves pretty much the same purpose.
On an informal level, this works
out much like the self-talk we use to push ourselves through tough stuff: “When I finish this bike ride, I’m going
to soak in the bathtub as long as I want!”
One note: be careful about things like “Will run
for chocolate.”
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